life, death, rebirth

Why can't most of us remember our past lives?

When a child is born, and the being is brought forth through the
physical doorway into your world, there is free will. And that is like
the very small valve in the heart that shuts off when breathing
through the umbilical and taking in air, it shuts off being able to
communicate with the spirit dimension. Partially it is so it isn't
confusing for the child. There is a necessary part of not remembering
all things. To be in the moment is important-even for a very small child.

Although in the more evolved beings this 'valve' is more open and
cannot be so easily shut off. Those are the wee ones you see that so
easily converse with other beings and may also refer to past existences.

What happens when you die?

When your physical being ceases to exist, there is no death of the
energy that is you. You are part of the light. Then there is a
time—you might call it twilight time. It is without dimension, a time
of great learning, a time when the energy of the entity absorbs the
full impact of the lifetime and learns from it.

How can I move beyond this grief and pain I feel at the loss of a
loved one?

Gentle one, you have had a great deal of sorrow.
Each time there is new sorrow for you to see, it is a time of healing
again.
Do not be afraid to visit old sorrows.
Pain is a wonderful gift to the physical body. Allow it to be.
Embrace it and in time the embrace will make you stronger.
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